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I received a request to do a blog post detailing all the reasons why you should make friends with other writers. This post will definitely go into those reasons, but I want to focus more on ways to build that community based on my personal experience.
… and many, many more. I could go on for days about how becoming a member of a writing community has helped me, but it’s better if you can see it firsthand. Let’s say you’re psyched. You want to meet with other writers to discuss issues of plot and elements of style. So how can you create or join a community?
Be active on social media. ESPECIALLY TWITTER. Seriously, people. Twitter changed my life. I’ve made so many writing friends on there that I almost can’t believe it. Feel free to follow me and we can live it up. If you have social media accounts, make sure you use them! And often! No one likes an inactive user. Tweet, reply, mention, direct, message, or whatever it takes to keep up with the Kardashians (kidding, of course, because none of them are writers).
Ask for nothing. I mean it. Don’t tweet at people asking them to read your stuff over and over again, especially if you’ve never had a normal conversation. Don’t ask people to buy everything you put out. Don’t obsess over self-promotion. That’s a massive turn-off. Just be you. Focus on building relationships and you’ll find that plenty of people will be interested in your work.
Do nice things for other people. This tip goes hand in hand with not asking for anything. When it comes to flourishing in a community, you need to give more than you receive. Help people out. Be a good human being. Remember the Golden Rule? Yeah, it’s time you use it. The nicer you are to other writers, the more likely it is that they’ll return the favor.
Reach out. If you’ve got a question or need advice about something, don’t be afraid to ask! Sometimes all you need is some encouragement. That’s where community comes in. I’ve had so many questions answered by my friends on Twitter, and I’m eternally grateful for their help. Don’t feel embarrassed to reach out for help! Everyone’s been there at one point or another.
It’s not that hard to meet and interact with other writers. As long as you follow my tips, focus on being genuine, and use your manners, you’ll be just fine.
What do you think of these tips? How has joining a community helped you and your writing?